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Grieving Families Wait in Line for 30 Minutes With Their Loved Ones. Wealthier families Get Unlimited Access

Jonas Lindqvist

28 September

5 min read

Barbara Burgess

The waiting room at the Memoriam Commons facility in Sao Paulo is quiet, even when full. Visitors sit in rows of cushioned chairs, checking their phones or staring at the floor. Most are here for their scheduled 30 minute session with a deceased loved one.


Memoriam Commons, a joint venture backed by three international technology firms, operates 12 facilities across South America. The service offers low cost access to digital replicas of the deceased, marketed as "an affordable path to continued connection."


What the company does not advertise as prominently: standard users are limited to two visits per month. Those who want more frequent or longer sessions must upgrade to premium tiers.

"It is not really about connection anymore," said Renata Oliveira, who visits her late father twice monthly. "It is about how much time you can afford."

Pricing documents obtained by this publication show that top tier subscribers pay nearly 40 times the base rate for unlimited access. A company representative confirmed the pricing structure but declined to discuss the rationale.

"We are offering something that did not exist before," the representative said. "That has value. How people access it is a matter of personal choice."

Critics argue that the model creates a two tiered grief system, where wealthier users can maintain ongoing relationships while others are left with brief, rationed encounters.


Dr. Camila Estrada, a psychologist who has studied the effects of limited access bereavement services, said the emotional impact is significant.

"These are not casual visits. People are saying goodbye, again and again, on a schedule they did not choose. That is not healing. That is managed loss."

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